I am pretty sure that we have all heard this advice growing up and honestly it is really bad advice. The idea that a girl will come into my life when I least expect just keeps me single.
I am 28 and there has never been no such occurrences. I am pretty social too and I am not just stuck on dating. I think about hobbies, careers, and friends. Typically when there was a girl, she already had a bf or went after a dude who pursued her. The truth is none of it has been true in my life.
The only time I got a gf is jumping on dating apps or asking girls out. I actually had to have the mindset to flirt and get the number. The rest of it has been bs
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